Important Inactive Groups Report (December 31st 2014)

JustDubs Designers Club Announcement: Lately I've been dragging and brunt out designing I have an idea to recover from that. I'm gonna start (Now I said this before but this time I'm more confidant) very soon it's gonna include "Behind-the-Scenes: Making Sigs, Banners,Icons,Themes etc." "Tutorials: Make amazing Designs that looks like a pro did it or other little things."
(Wish I have access to the JD Youtube so I can post freely and edit the images like avatar and banner....)

It's gonna look like JD 100% like it never left! I love JD so expect a top notch Throwback.
(it's gonna be cool to have 3 different throwback designs made from 3 members)

 

@Miss Elegent Serenity You know what Serenity, history LOVES to repeat itself, so, I have now made u the admin of the GOS and stepped down as admin, and mod and even as a member of the GOS! If you think your idea is what will do it, you can be admin. That's what the WAR! thread was for, and the Girl's only thread before it though. You can take any further matters up with @Kiri but as for me, I have HAD IT with the GOS! Like you, I put in a lot of time and effort into this, and at least 3 other girls including Kiri herself did help put in 1-2 hrs when we were deciding on how to make the group, so that's not nothing. (Note: Kiri put in more than 2 hrs) The only sad fact is, they did not put in any real time if at any into the group once it was made and we know how it all went down hill from there. I TRIED to create a place for us, and I also was happy most agreed to allow the guys in there as long as rules were put in place. Also, the GOS was NEVER limited to talking about girly things like Nails, hair etc. it was what WE wanted it to be about but sadly, no one besides the boys partook practically. (Some partook, but not for long and I couldn't continue posting when no one was posting)

As for your example, maybe you remember just who it was that FOOLISHLY did that? If not, allow me to expose the dastardly criminal who was responsiable for ruining the original GOT, the culprit was, yours truly, me! That's right, I admit to doing this act, however, at the time two things had happened. 1st and formost, I was a brand new member who had just found her way to JD as well as later the GOT, I was new, I didn't know it was a game (Baka, I know) so I thought, there must be a way to drive the boys out surely? Then it hit me, make a post, telling the girls to just ignore the boys, and, they did. As for @Shogun13 , he may've deleted those posts on his own or was it because of something I or someone else said? It wasn't many posts and he stopped not long after but what really drove it to it's grave was my idea which the girls acted on. The 2nd thing that hit the nail in the coffin was the fall of the original JD site. Then after it didn't get revived, I revived the GOT, only for the biys to spam (Literal actual spam) and torment the girls (That was NO game) and then we got DT finally, so after another month and no revive and trying to prevent that boy spam from happening again, I thought of using the new club system, and with the help of U, Kiri, and a few others, we created the GOS, but it was all for nothing and what KILLS ME is this post of yours, yes it hurt seeing this all unfold but your single post here is why I am fed up with the GOS entirely. I am SORRY the original GOT ended up that way, but don't think for 1 min that I didn't try to re-correct my mistake!

Now, you're the new admin of the GOS, have fun, and, gl.

 

It was somebody. I don't know who, I think it was you, but yeah I was white knighting in the most violent manner possible because somebody suggested it and I agreed.

 

Huh? There was a few posts after your's in the WAR!! Thread... Anyways, I'm staying out of this >_>

 

@Sporadic I believe my prev post explained much of my sitch, the time it was back then and so on but just to clear up your confusion on the matter, back then, I said I was brand new, I didn't realize it was a "joke" and I honestly thought the girls wanted the guys out. (This was magnified by seeing the guy's only thread having only guys but no girls) As for what u said about "me" changing the purpose of the group/thread, u are VERY mistaken there. First, in regards to the thread itself, it was only like 1 month that the original had died (Also, a fact that the thread DID die and rise often throughout it's history) and after only 1 month of it being dead, we all got hit with what Noey put us and JD through and we lost our original home. I waited at least 1 full month to see if the original creator or SOMEONE was going to revive the thread, but they didn't so I took it upon myself to revive it but not out of guilt but because the original was fun, at THIS TIME I had realized my mistake and realized it was supposed to be like it was before, and I think the image I posted saying "Girls, you know what to do" made that very clear. HOWEVER! Some time after it was revived, you boys (Not you Spor but just boys in gen) decided to break the forum rules (Which we all know the rules were slacked on because JDR was a temp forum, just look at the avi/sig size as an example of this) and literally SPAM not play no games but actually SPAM the dang thread! You boys literally chased many of the girls away, @Miss Elegent Serenity can testify to this or any girl who was there that witnessed this could. (I think Serenity was there when that happened?) So then finally DT came, brought a new group system and after what happened with the boys and how they drove the girls away like that, OF COURSE I had to change it some! What else would prevent that horrendous spam from coming back? (Given the nature of the thread and what all happened before) Plus, one other thing to note here, if u think I alone single handledly created the GOS and it's "rules" you are wrong. It took many countless hrs of going back and forth between 4-5 other girls and asking them countless questions and we all put our vote in for what the group would be, majority won, heck, even the NAME came from this very way. As the one who came up with the idea for the new group, the only thing I really had a say in and enforced was, the group's rules and anything related to it would be held via a majority wins, because, it was not I who created the group alone, it was 4-5 girls including myself who created the GOS and most agreed with me on putting in some rules to prevent that boy spam of which, we never even had to enforce those rules, so please don't think it was the rules that drove people away when they weren't even enforced. (Heck, no one even got a strike let alone a ban) Even so, I kept the original thread and even made a WAR thread given the new layout of said group, WAR thread was most popular thread and sadly, because none of the girls besides a very small few kept their word and stuck around, the boys saw this and slowly left. So, I will say, what happened to the GOS was NOT my fault, what happened to the GOT after I recreated it was also NOT my fault, but what happened to the original GOT, WAS my fault and I don't deny that nor am making excuses, only stating facts.

@Miss Elegent Serenity I tagged u above as well as here. If u read above, u will understand full well why nothing was done, but I will go ahead and say this new bit here, when everyone left, it was just you, me and Kiri left to do the majority wins thing for deciding stuff for the GOS, but Kiri never got back to my messages I left for her not long after that, not once, at some point she too gave up, maybe due to busy, maybe due to something else, I dunno but, when that happens and u and I were disagreeing with what to do, what else COULD be done? I tried waiting, but nothing, yes perhaps from the get go the group shoulda just been ran by 1 person instead of all of us, that was it's flaw and perhaps my fault as well but, I TRIED to be fair and do the right thing. I will say I am sorry I caused u so much pain and hurt, there is nothing I can do to change that or this whole mess and perhaps shoving the GOS onto u was selfish of me but, I CANNOT and WILL NOT see the GOT/GOS turned name wise into something that doesn't have Girls Only" in it's name as long as I was an admin or mod of the group, it wasn't as big of a deal to me back before we created the GOS and were deciding on a new name, but it is now and as I said before, I see NO POINT in naming it that when that's the thread's purpose anyway. After all, it won't change the facts, no one cared to keep it going besides you and me and a few others who were posting there for a bit and the WAR! thread stated what it's purpose was along with the rules stating it too so I see no point in renaming the thread/group when it won't change things besides the name but since u feel it will, the group is yours now to do with as u please, keep it, rename it, change it's purpose, do anything you want with it including what I suggested to do earlier in this here thread, to which u'll notice 1 Kiri is once again not responding to this matter and sorry but u were the only one left I COULD make admin given that fact. I am tired of this myself, u aren't the only one whose been hurt and such and I won't continue hurting myself over a group that NO ONE besides u and me actually cared for. In any case, you're now the admin, it's YOUR group to do what u want with it, sorry but I cannot keep going with the group after reading your post as well as no one caring for it and again, sorry for pushing this all onto you, though I hope this post explains why it was done. GL with whatever u decide to make/do with it.

 

Such text, much wall, no tldr availible eh?

 

@Nimander I think the Girls Only Society will turn into a Guys Vs Girls thread in the Asylum instead. But, that has yet to be confirmed.

 

Spor, I will not discuss the GOS/GOT with u any further, esp when you are saying stuff that I did which isn't true. What I've said in the last few posts on the matter IS the truth, I will NOT continue to be made to feel as though this is 100% MY fault, esp given everything that went down and happened. Yes I have already 3 times counting now admitted it was MY fault for coming in all new, not realizing etc. but at the same time, the thread continued at least a week after Shogun's white knighting which was when I thought of hey, let's just ignore them, and around that time, more and more began to ignore, it's not that they simply left because Shogun white knighted and hey, if they really did then, whose fault was it for leaving and taking my advice? Mine? Sure, but them leaving was THIER choice, not mine, if that's what really made them leave then the thread CLEARLY meant very little to them to begin with but again, I have already said I am at fault for being new and not realizing it was a game and I have already said much more on the whole GOS/GOT mess yet you are trying to spin this into something that it wasn't. I won't say more nor reply to any reply from you or Serenity on this matter. If Serenity does wish to talk to me about it, she can do so 1 on 1 in Skype.

 

@Sporadic I got everything where it needs to be, deleted the now empty clubs, and gave Mods the ability to see the temp node I made for the Shorts Club threads. Any Mod/Admin that wishes to help move those threads can use the normal In-line move option since I've already properly merged-moved them out of the club.

 

Sorted it.